April 13, 2022On a Square on a Screen
She is animated in her Zoom square
her hands moving,
her eyes urging us to stay with her,
to understand
the vocabulary of the election
in American Sign Language.
candidate. election. vote. party. republican. democrat. independent. win.
It is Election Day 2020, and my brain is crowded with worry
and cannot make room to process new words taught by a face on a square
on a screen
but we don’t get it, so she spells it out with her fingers, slowly
for those of us used to signing with children
who speak an ASL more about impressions of combined letters
than precise spellings
we tend to get so hung up on the pesky individual letters—
pausing to wonder if that p was a k—
that we miss the rest of the story and so
democrat and republican are words that I don’t quite catch.
When she calls on each of us,
waiting the several seconds it takes us to
catch our sign name on her hands
in her square on our screens,
when she asks: WHICH-PARTY-YOU-SUPPORT?
I do not know what to say.
She pauses, she is patient, though I don’t know why
because as a group, we are painfully slow
but she knows that practice makes progress
so she throws me a bone, she says
I-SUPPORT-REPUBLICAN-PARTY-YOU?
WHICH-PARTY-YOU-SUPPORT?
And I’m thrown off
because Trump?
and Stella?
I can hardly believe it, but then it occurs to me that
I don’t even know those words, really,
and maybe she didn’t say that at all and
even if she did, would it change how I feel
about this woman who teaches my nephew,
who teaches me, and my mom, and my dad,
and my brother-in-law
for free
or maybe just for the feeling of knowing that
one Deaf child she cares about will have a family
who speaks his language,
even if they can’t precisely tell
the difference between the words
republican and democrat?
I am a careful student, as a rule,
but I leave without learning the difference
because tonight, I don’t want to see it.
I don’t want to linger on the difference because
maybe if I don’t know how to describe it,
it will disappear
and we can just be people
learning each other’s languages
from a square on a screen.
from #75 - Spring 2022