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      March 3, 2025To My BrotherDante Di Stefano

      Brother is such a close word,
      a rabbit word, a ghost word,
      a throat word, a word of blood
      & root & cell & stem shot
      through concrete, an agree word,
       
      a word belonging to toad
      & gnat alike, a dog word,
      a mitochondrial word,
      a rivering outdoor word,
      a toehold near the summit.
       
      Daeman, I feel like I’m always
      arbitraging with the past
      & the future, each poem whorled
      with the fingerprints smudging
      a Ken Griffey Jr. rookie
       
      card in a cigar box from
      grandpa’s house & holding out
      the halogen light of some
      final hospital room I
      hopefully won’t find myself
       
      in before my last breath pines
      across the waters into
      a purple the shade of mom’s
      dresses when we lived in the
      army green apartment house
       
      in Schenectady, our bunk-
      bed a rowboat we steered each
      night as mom & dad fought or
      made love in the next room. I
      wish I could remember what
       
      we talked about all those nights
      before fading off into
      chiaroscuro slumbers,
      the aquatics of sleep usurping
      our separate common futures.
       
      What illusory brindled
      beast writhes there in the shadows?
      I want to think we discussed
      the shades of perennials
      in grandmother’s flowerbeds,
       
      but I’m sure our talk was more
      delinquent & innocent,
      imbued with the nightlights of
      baseball diamonds & the smell
      of fresh cut grass caroming
       
      through chain link fences from park
      to lawn to side street to ave.
      & back through the bitter cul-
      de-sacs of the suburban
      dark, back to me dreaming you
       
      into a poem where you are
      holding your newborn daughter
      in a photograph with big
      mountains looming behind you,
      into your niece & nephew
       
      pretending you live in our
      attic, as they shout “Uncle
      Daeman” at the ceiling fan
      & I repeat the refrain:
      brother is such a far word,
       
      an orbital word, a train
      of stars from the hem of night,
      a word that wrestles other
      words to the ground in front of
      a Denny’s at 2 a.m.

      from #86 – Winter 2024

      Dante Di Stefano

      “My younger brother, Daeman, has always been my best friend, although he might punch me for saying that. When I started seriously writing poetry as an undergraduate, he was my first reader and my first enthusiastic champion. He used to tack my (horrible attempts at) poems to his dorm room walls. Over the years, he has been to many poetry readings. Often, he’s the only accountant in the room. My brother and I lead very different lives as adults, separated by geography and the demands of work and family, but I will be forever grateful for our shared childhood and for our wild young adulthood, either despite or because of the occasional wrestling match at Denny’s at 2 a.m. Daeman, here’s another thing to punch me for: I love you.”